ok so first i would like to say any of you males that read this, if you think its about you, stop being so full of yourself its about everyone and no one guy by themselves.
now that thats out of the way, i want to vent for a little. why do guys, not all guys but some guys, think that its perfectly acceptable to be a complete and total man whore using the excuse of being a "guy", but if a girl wants to go out and date around she's a b*tch and a wh**e? excuse me but what decade do we live in. girls are a force to be delt with and we know what we want, ok fine not all of us but some of us, and we will do what it takes to get there. stop making us feel inferior because of our gender. if it werent for us you wouldnt be alive today. if it were up to males to carry children there wouldnt be very many. face it, we are strong even when you think we're being babies. we just cant control our tear ducts sometimes.
i cant think of one girl who hasnt been in a horrible relationship in one way or another. and they all have picked themselves back up and moved on with grace and dignity. not saying guys turn into complete fools when a relationship goes bad but from what i've seen in my short 22 years is guys react in one of two ways. become a jerk and say screw everything, which they usually do, or they plot a way to get her back.. even after years and years and years. us girls we cry, get it out and move the hell on, ok yeah fine again not all of us do sometimes we get hung up on guys, but take it as a compliment it means you meant alot to us.
being somewhat back in the single world is weird. its alot different than high school was. the guys are still clueless as ever but my mindset has changed so much. the way i veiw dating has done a 180 in terms of how i will eventually approach it. long gone is the silly 18 year old girl who was like "omg your cute lets date cause i like you". please even thinking about that makes me slightly sick.
anyway im off to coffee..
xoxo
rae
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